AZ Visitor meets Mara & WI Snow

Mara B and I have not seen each other for a few days while I’ve been enjoying Little Free Library meetings and visiting LFL Board Members! I was definitely missing my horse time but found some horse inspiration on a few of our outings.

(There will be a special prize for the follower who can correctly identify where I spotted this beautiful horse.)

Today at the end of our meetings Jake, from Arizona visited Mara B with me and they really hit it off.

I was delighted to have my Mara B check in time and to share her with Jake. We seem to be on to a new season.

Doors are Closed

The heat is now on in the barn and all the barn doors have been shut. Mara B was definitely ready to come into the barn for our visit today. It was cold, rainy, and windy.

Mara enjoyed her hay while I attempted to clean her up before heading to the indoor arena. We are not big fans of the indoor arena, however she did enjoy free time to race around today.

The next few days look like more questionable outdoor riding weather. So Mara and I are just dreaming of our next ride outside together.

Most days I think ahead to where we may ride and then I love to review the rides in my head when I’m back home.

A Trio

Sharing photos from Saturday, Sunday and today! Jay’s day on Saturday was fun for all three of us. Mara loves his attention and I appreciated his photography skills. Jay captured our fun in the fields ride time.

Sunday was a cold rainy washout for us. I simply brought Mara B in for some food and a respite from the crummy weather. There is not much you can do with a really wet horse.

Today we got our ride in before the sprinkles arrived. We found some fall scenes to share. We also watched a large buck come dashing out of the woods and race across the back fields directly in front of us to the woods on the far side. A powerful sight of freedom.

Mara and I are still seeing the beauty of late autumn.

November 1 & 2

November has provided us some lovely riding weather so far! Yesterday Mara B and I met up with Bruce, a pasture horse who likes to hang out alone at the far corner of the pasture. Bruce has surprised a number of horses and riders from his side of the fence! We clearly saw him this time as we passed by.

Mara B also met up with her favorite farrier Brian for a trim and a new set of shoes.

This afternoon we enjoyed another great ride with Leah and her mare Holly. Mara and I gave them a little tour around the upper cow pasture and then on a loop around the Meyer’s Farm.

We will take 45 more days like today please, with ideal weather, open fields and good horses to ride.

Welcome to November.

Scary Squirrel Surprise

Jennifer and Bella and Mara and I were off on a lovely fall ride together this afternoon. We went through cut fields, on the Meyers road and up to the power lines.

Then on the last leg of the ride home a squirrel surprised Mara B when it quickly ran up out of the ditch right in front of us, and “got her!” Not too scary, just a Halloween surprise for us. But we wish you only sweet surprises, and a Happy Halloween today.

Hello Pony Hello Trunk

On todays ride Mara and I discovered this huge tree trunk near the lower cow pasture meadow, it’s so significant it deserves a photo. We also enjoyed some beautiful deep reds along our path.

We liked the apple tree with no leaves too, it only has apples still hanging on.

Returning from our ride around the neighboring stable we met up with a former River Brink boarder out on her horse Pony. We chatted and caught up.

Pleasant surprises for us on a very pleasant afternoon ride.

Two Classics

Today’s post is spotlighting faithful Mara Moments follower, Uncle Raymond. Jay and I visited Raymond this weekend and enjoyed seeing the horse he lives with! His horse is from the frieze of the Parthenon in Athen’s Greece. Thanks for riding along with us Ray!

Mara B and I have had two great rides, yesterday and today so we’re sharing a few highlights from both of them here.

Sunday afternoon we had some lovely sun angles to enjoy.

Today we noticed how bare the trees really are now. However our big observation was the new deer stand on wheels. Plus we stopped to say hello to Barbie and Cha Ching on our way back home.

Cha Ching is friendly and really growing!

Happy Trails to all our followers.

Current Color Palette

Mara and I found some beautiful color amongst the neutrals of the current landscape on our solo adventure this afternoon.

We circled the cut fields behind the Stable again and had fun trotting through the cut soybean field.

All was very still and quiet and we returned in just as the afternoon sprinkles arrived. A pleasant Friday afternoon ride with Mara B.

Empty Nest /Empty Space

After Mara B had a chance to expend some energy, we rode off on a peaceful quiet ride together this afternoon.

We embraced empty nests and wide open expansive spaces. We saw two empty nests, many Blue Jays, a Cardinal and half a dozen deer who we disturbed in the cornfield.

We love riding around the cut fields.

Molly even snapped a photo of me today.

I’m trying to observe the landscape with curiosity and wonder as fall descends upon us more and more each day.

Eight Years and Two We Will Remember

October 22, 2018

Eight years now since Benjamin died by suicide and I am accepting that the old Helen and Jay are gone. 10/22/10 permanently marred and modified us. We will never be the same and I continue to find and adapt to my new normal. The impacts of his death are the portal we pass through every day.

Today I am writing a special Mara Moments Equine Therapy Blog post. This post highlights some healing I have experienced through two extraordinary men who reached out to me following Benjamin’s death. Today I want to share them with you on this the 8th anniversary of Benjamin’s death.

These two friends touched my wounded heart with their compassion and kindness. They deserve to be acknowledged on this anniversary because, sadly, they have both recently passed away.

JIM:
Liz is a friend of our son, Peter, and her father is Jim White. I really did not know Jim until a few days after Benjamins funeral when he called me and said “Helen, Jim White here. I’m never going to forget you on this one, I’m with you forever.” I was so numb, so low and so out of it at the time I’m not certain what I said in response. However, Jim’s words during that first call amazed and touched me. The lovely part of this story and this man is that Jim actually did what he said he was going to do. Jim was a landline phone friend. He faithfully called me or left me messages and always stayed in touch. With little or no reciprocal friending back, Jim won me over as such a dear special guy! Sadly Jay, Peter and I attended Jim’s funeral on 3/7/18.

I lost an extraordinary friend. Jim was that rare person who, as Sarah R. pointed out truly “lived the Beatitudes” To be a recipient of his warm, kind friendship was an amazing experience. Thank you and Bless you Jim.

TODD:
Then I met Todd Bol in 2011 because Jay and I learned about Little Free Library (thank you Mary R.) and we immediately wanted to have one as a memorial for Benjamin. Our family loves books, reading and libraries which were a wonderful part of Benjamin’s life, so a Little Free Library was a perfect memorial.

 

Benjamin Helen Peter Madeline Island Library

Benjamin, Helen and Peter

We met Todd and Susan Bol when they personally delivered and installed “Benjamin’s Books” LFL Charter number 260 on September 20, 2011 at Freedom Park. We even made the news in the Prescott Journal on November 17, 2011 when it ran this photo of the four of us along with a great story.

Helen Jay Todd & Susan Bol

Benjamin's Library

If I had never spoken to Todd again I would not have thought a thing of it. I had no capacity to make a new friend as I was still in therapy and struggling with depression, confusion and daily anxiety.

But Todd Bol was the extraordinary person who decided to be a friend in the midst of my pain. Todd would call me to chat and we talked about Benjamin and mental health. Todd would email me too. Several times Todd would circle back and ask Jay and me to participate in Little Free Library programs and events. Jay and I attended multiple National Book Events with Todd. Our story is in the first LFL video, and in the “The Little Free Library Book.” (2015)

Jay and I were married the same year as Todd and Susan, our children are the same age, we were all about the same age, and we all love books, libraries, reading and the mission of Little Free Library. Our connections touched us all.

I am currently a member of the National Board of Little Free Library, all because of Todd’s extraordinary capacity to be a friend and to include us among those he cared about and connected with.

After Benjamin’s death I designed a pocket coin in his memory with messages of the need for light and peace in our lives. Jay and I have had 3000 produced to date. We give them to people who have suffered loss or endured substantial pain. We also leave them in Benjamin’s library as well as in special places as we travel. Many family members and special friends have also distributed these “Benjamin coins” for us and we love their caring support with this task. Todd was a faithful carrier and distributor of Benjamin coins too. We gave him many bags of coins that he took on his trips around the country and to other nations to give away and share our story as he promoted Little Free Libraries. This truly touched our hearts.

Being in Todd’s magical sphere offered healing and positive activities for Jay, Peter and me to participate in that took us “out of the pits of our pain” and allowed us to share in the wonderful positive kind world of Little Free Library.

On this anniversary of Benjamin’s death, we are donating to the Todd H Bol Vision Fund as a memorial to Benjamin because Todd exemplifies qualities we value; supporting all people through the collective sharing of books in the most inclusive, creative and kind way!
Please join us in donating to this special fund if this speaks to your heart.

Todd Fund

Can be accessed through this link:

Todd Bol Vision Fund

[https://little-free-library.snwbll.com/todd-h-bol]

On Monday, October 22, 2018, Jay and I will be focusing on Benjamin’s life and our memories of our family life with him. We plan to visit a favorite chapel to send up some prayers for Benjamin, Jim and Todd, and spend some time at Benjamin’s Bench.

Benjamin Bench Oct 2018

Later we will eat at a Thai restaurant because that’s where Benjamin would choose to eat. We will visit Mara B who is also feeling the need for rest and introspection.

Mara Resting

Thank you to all who read this and to our faithful Mara Moments followers.

Helen